Friday, February 6, 2009

The One Most Important Reason Why She's Not Replying

Breaking up is always a hard and emotionally devastating process. You both are hurt by what each other have said, and you need time for each other to heal.

If it was a healthy relationship with a bitter end, there is a good chance that you can get back together with her, but constantly calling, pestering and trying to talk to her is not the ideal solution? Why? Women need space to contemplate and reflect... and so do you!

In this period of upset, you need to realise that by trying to constantly call her is just going to make things worse. The pestering phone calls are a constant reminder of you, and most of the time, she isn't interested.

During this period, space is the most important thing that you can give your ex-girlfriend revenge. Spend some time on yourself, don't fall in the trap of binge eating or doing unhealthy things to rid yourself of your pain. By having a period where you can both get emotionally back into shape, it is more likely that she'll accept you than if you start to pester her now.

Pick up a new hobby, go and meet some friends that you didn't have time for during your relationship. No doubt she'll be doing the same to. If she starts dating people, let her. Don't become the jealous ex-boyfriend, and accept that she might move on.

You must understand that you have to contact her without being intrusive. Some people try to write a letter explaining their feelings and asking for forgiveness. A letter is a good way to initially contact her, as it serves as a physical reminder of you (she will be compelled to open it when the letter is sitting there) and you can get your message across without her being angry.

After this cool off period and now that you have given her your first contact, you now should move onto planning the first steps of getting back together with her.

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